Please Note: One of the benefits of not working for a church is I can write about topics like this and not get in trouble by my congregation because... well, I don’t have one. Married men, please stop masturbating so much. I keep meeting couples where the wife is complaining there isn’t enough … [Read more...]
Part 2: Talking to My Daughters About Sex
When it comes to talking about sex with kids, there shouldn’t be the official sex talk that is super awkward for everyone, but a more ongoing open discussion made up of many smaller conversations like when you’re on a long drive or sitting by a lake. It’s like how kids share more with their friends … [Read more...]
You are a Treasure: Talking to My Daughters About Sex Pt1
My daughters are one and three, so talking about sex won’t be for awhile, but my plan is to do more than my parents did. Fortunately, that won’t be hard – nothing isn’t hard to beat. I remember when I was in university, my brother’s older, married friend made a comment about sex, and my Mom … [Read more...]
Christianity and Masturbation
In the movie Patch Adams, one of my favourite movies, there is a scene at the beginning of the movie where Patch is creating a stir with his fellow psych-ward patients. At one point he yells, “Who likes to masturbate?” and all the patients, including Patch, put up both their hands and cheer. As a … [Read more...]
How Christian Parents Should Talk to Their Kids about Sex
Please note: A practical list of tips can be found at the end of this post Sex, there’s a topic parents want to avoid talking about to their kids... unless they’re those creepy parents who are way too open about it. Talking to your kids about sex should be a bit awkward because who wants to … [Read more...]
10 Reasons the Amount of Sex Might be Lacking in Your Relationship
Recently, a common theme that has come up in my therapy practice (for some reason the issues I see tend to come in waves) is that some couples aren’t satisfied with the amount of sex they have in their relationship, or more accurately, one person in the relationship isn’t satisfied with the amount … [Read more...]
How to have Great Sex OR Be a Great Kisser
Have you ever heard the expression, “You don’t buy a shoe without trying it on”? I hate this saying. Yes, I agree you should try on shoes before buying them... that just makes sense... but this statement is used to explain why you “need” to have sex with someone before you get married. Um, I … [Read more...]
How to have Great Sex
I really enjoy the show Royal Pains, but in the second season the one female character says to an engaged Indian woman who is following her culture’s belief of saving sex to marriage, “How can you marry him if you haven’t had sex? What if it’s bad?” Um, is that why you marry someone because they’re … [Read more...]