I am getting old. Did any of you see the new Spiderman movie? This is how I know I’m getting old. Spiderman is swinging from building to building, which is cool right? No, no it’s not cool. It’s irresponsible. I’m watching him swing around and all I can think is: who’s going to clean up after … [Read more...]
Saying I love you
Looking at someone directly in the eye and saying: “I love you” is a bad idea... if you don’t know the person. It tends to scare them. Of course, if your goal is to scare them then this is a great idea. For instance, perhaps you’re in line at the grocery store and the person in front of you has a … [Read more...]
Some hate the idea that men are loyal
Last week I discussed that men are the loyal gender. This conversation tends to go two ways from here: “Wow, you’re right. Men are loyal,” or “You’re wrong!” said with an exclamation mark because they’re somehow offended. As it turns out, guys always agree that they’re loyal and women... … [Read more...]
Guys are the loyal gender
Men are known as a lot of things: rational, competitive, smelly, but under our emotionally stunted and sometimes gorilla like exterior we’re actually very loyal. I love saying that men are the loyal gender to people face to face because the response is usually something like: “Yeah right... oh, … [Read more...]
Guys & feelings… do they go together?
I was recently reminded of a very important lesson: no matter how funny a comment may be to me or may sound in my head, it may not be funny to my girlfriend; and when I say “may not be funny,” I mean like 98.141592% chance it won’t be funny to her. It was an extensive study. Yes, I recently … [Read more...]
A New Year’s Lesson & Blessing
New Years Eve was a great night for me because it reminded me of a really important lesson: I am... how do you say... really boring. My girlfriend fully agrees with this statement. Please understand I don’t say that I’m boring with any regret or disappointment... my girlfriend would. I’m happy to … [Read more...]
Sexuality vs. Intimacy
I dated my first girlfriend for five years. I was twenty-one and she was eighteen when we started. Yes, I believe if you can’t find someone your own age go for someone younger. This is further proven by my second and current girlfriend because she’s six years younger. No one older possessed my … [Read more...]
The Headless Soldier… losing your head over a woman
I was recently on a ghost tour in Niagara-on-the-Lake (I highly recommend this tour), and one story in particular stood out for me; the story of the headless soldier from Fort Niagara on the American side. I mention that it happened at the American fort because this kind of irrational violence … [Read more...]