A few years ago I was talking with a child therapist who had been in practice for twenty five years, but she didn’t have her own kids until she had been in it for fifteen years. What she said confirmed what I had long expected: “Everything I taught was from the books I was given at school, and … [Read more...]
Parenting Tips from Someone who Shouldn’t be Giving Parenting Tips
What’s an easy way to tick off a parent? Tell them how to parent, so... happy Mother’s Day. I’m going to give some parenting advice. After all, I am the parent of a 6 week old, so I clearly know what it takes to be a parent. Sarcasm aside (weird, right?), as a therapist who works with parents I … [Read more...]
How to be the Perfect Parent
Today I feel like ticking a few people off, so I’m going to do the thing every parent hates: Be someone without kids telling you how to be the perfect parent. Sure I have no practical experience as a parent, but why should that stop me from handing out my brilliant ideas. On the plus side, … [Read more...]
Parenting Today is Harder than Ever Before
Parents today have a problem that hasn’t been an issue before: Kids like themselves... too much. When I grew up there were always a few braggers and bullies, but a lot of this was still the result of kids and teens trying to feel better about themselves. Trying to feel better about ourselves was … [Read more...]
Are you a parent or partner?
It is apparent that parents are not being parents but rather partners while, at the same time, parents are being more like parents to their partners instead of partnering, and apparently I like tongue twisters. In case this first sentence was too confusing... I should’ve erased it, but I’m way … [Read more...]
Good Parenting
This week I had the privilege of going to the Universal and Disney Parks; they are all amazing places designed with wonderful creativity and impressive craftsmanship. Of course, what really stood out to me, however, was seeing the contrast between good and bad parents. I know not being a parent … [Read more...]